Mind the Gap, Dash & Lily by Rachel Cohn/David Levithan (eARC Review, Dash & Lily #3)

Publisher: Random House Children’s Books
Page Count
: 256

*I was provided with an eARC by the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review!*

CW: depiction of anxiety/panic attacks

I’ve currently really been on a roll when it comes to Dash & Lily, reigniting my love for the characters by binging the Netflix show (several times) and following it up by reading the sequel and now this book that places them in London. It’s as if the authors allow you to watch them grow up a little more with each book and I appreciated that the most in Mind the Gap.

There was much I loved, but also a couple things that bothered me. A lot of it came down to one of my biggest pet peeves – bad communication. Despite being miles and miles apart, Dash and Lily really make the long distance thing work. They seemed so solid in their relationship that their troubles once they reunited felt … strange to me. Obviously, they were busy living their lives and struggling or thriving (depending on who you’re looking at) and didn’t talk about every little detail that happened while they were apart. Where Dash got disappointed by his own ambitions, Lily was turning into a little dog mogul without her family or friends noticing. All of that is understandable and just warrants a bit of time to talk it all out, catch up on the things you missed, but what does Lily Bear do? Once again she runs away. I was so frustrated with her, because poor Dashiell was just too overwhelmed.

Lily went to London surprising Dash without his knowledge. While he was glad to see her (because he is always glad to see her), it was also really bad timing. He didn’t want her to see him in this state of despair he found himself in. Oxford had drained him to the last drop and only his previously estranged grandmother, Gem, could raise his spirits. Instead of being glad that Dash had finally found a family member to connect with, Lily was jealous. She was legit jealous of Dash’ grandmother, a woman who is basically a slightly British version of Mrs. Basil E.

But once they got over those initial hick-ups, however annoying I might have found them, especially on Lily’s part, the book was really fantastic. I felt Dash’ state of being lost to the core. The way his world seemed to close in on him and he just did not know what to do now that what he had always envisioned for himself wasn’t as fulfilling as he thought it would be. I think that’s something a lot of young adults have to face. Their expectations of college/university aren’t always going to match up with reality and it takes a whole lot of strength to muster up the courage to find a new path.

Simultaneously, you have Lily’s own struggle with what the future holds. I think I found it a bit harder to connect to her here, because she is so much larger than life sometimes. Where Dash is relatable in his quiet despair, Lily has suddenly made mountains of cash (without her very meddling family knowing?) and has become a dog influencer who is even recognised on the street outside of New York City. I always knew her happy demeanor was contagious, but she basically had become a celebrity without the people in her life realising it. Maybe because she didn’t communicate clearly what she was doing and just how successful she was with it, her family kept pressuring her to go down a more traditional academic route. I enjoyed that she stood her ground in the end, but I never really had to worry about her not being okay. She was doing great for herself, Dash was much more worrisome.

The book ended with their relationship stronger than ever. While the story as a whole was not as fluffy and cutesy as the previous ones, it still filled my heart with a certain warmth that only Dash and Lily can provide. Those kids are not kids anymore and you just know they’re going to find their way.

Rating: 3.5/5 stars! It was lovely to see them grow up like this.

Do you want to continue on with Dash and Lily’s epic love story? Does it convey the holiday spirit to you as well? Let’s talk!

Red Band Society Winter Finale

So, I already covered the premiere of Red Band Society this Fall Season (click here to read it) and therefore I thought it was only fitting to write about the Winter Finale as well! Beware, Spoilers ahead!

If you are a curious person like me, you were probably pissed at the winter finale because it ended with so many cliffhangers. Usually, I would just suck it up and wait until the show returns in spring or summer, but I can’t really do that with Red Band Society, can I? Although nothing is for certain, the show is as good as cancelled. I know that the ratings weren’t top notch, because there were some not so good episodes in it, but I generally quite enjoyed Red Band Society and would have liked to at least get a proper ending. I just hate it when you are left with more questions than answers, and here is what left me so utterly unsatisfied after the winter finale:

  • Emma got to go home, even though she is so clearly not fine. You see her struggling to get along with her family, especially after they reveal that her grandmother had a similar disease, and she also seems to miss Leo. At the end of the episode we see her unconscious on the floor of her bathroom.
  • Hunter┬áhas to make a decission whether to stay in the hospital (with Kara) or go home with his parents. He decides to go home, which Kara clearly doesn’t like. Just when he’s about to leave, his pager goes off, which means he gets a new liver (and it’s not from his sister). Before his surgery, he tells Dash that he is a true leader, which is sort of sweet. The episode ends with him still in the OR.
  • Jordi may turn into a drug dealer in order to get the money for the emancipation fee.
  • Doctor McAndrew finally snaps at Brittany for holding a grudge after their one night stand. I get it though and I feel really sorry for Britt. I mean she was just so obviously into him and I’m not surprised she confused feelings with sex. He could definitely cut her some slack, it’s not like she’s sabotaging his work. She’s just not as friendly as before.
  • Nurse Jackson has a thing for the guy who helps Charlie after he woke up from his coma. He seems to be interested as well, but because she just witnessed how a workplace relationship can go awry, she puts up her walls again. Those writers don’t let anyone be happy …
  • Finally, Kara and Leo … WTF?! I am not that much of a fan of Emma, but I shipped Kara and Hunter right from the start. I get why Kara and Leo are something like friends and they kissed before, but letting them hook up now – not okay! And Leo is going to be so pissed when he sees the missed call from Emma.

So, basically everything is ruined. That’s just how they are going to let this end? Not fair! What are your thoughts on the (winter) finale of Red Band Society?